dreythomas
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Send the update clients want, not the one you want to write

There's a real difference between the update a client is waiting for and the update that's easiest for you to write. Clients usually want to know one specific thing — are we still on track — while it's tempting to send a longer message covering everything you've been doing lately.

Lead with the answer to the question they actually have in mind. If they're wondering about timing, tell them the timing first, then add detail after if it's useful. Burying the answer under a lot of extra context makes people scan for what they need instead of feeling informed right away.

This is a small shift, but it changes how your updates land. I reread my own updates before sending and ask whether the first line answers the question they would ask me on a call. A short, direct message that answers the real question builds more trust than a longer one that makes someone hunt for it.

Try this today: look at your last client update and check whether it answered their most likely question in the first line or buried it further down.

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